there it goes!! same it applies for relationship. doesn't mean that couples have to spend every single minute, hour, day and time together. missing each other would definitely be a YES! but not to the extend of meeting each other every single day.

trust and faith is the thing that keep couples together. as what yuping told to me " i rather, spend less time, but love her even more because of the lack of time. rather than spent more time and take her for granted. i mean if you scared your other partner will date with others, then you shouldn't even commit yourself into a relationship" TOTALLY AGREE WITH THIS. yea? AGAIN IT'S THE TRUST.

Loving somebody may be a good thing, but falling in love deeply with someone may not be a good thing anymore. especially falling for someone which you not suppose to fall in love with.

Loving someone or getting into a relationship, is not just you and your partner's life merge together. it also affect people around you. your family and your friends. Have you ever ask yourself, wouldn't be silly if you quarrel with your parents over a guy? Wouldn't be silly if you quarrel with your friends over a guy? Wouldn't be silly if you neglect your studies over a guy? At the end of the day, all of them leave you, what did u get? well you might think, you still have your guy. BUT WHAT IF your guy break up you, what did u get? NOTHING IN FACT!!

If you feels that what you're doing is correct, then you must be very selfish. i mean you dont live or own the world alone, there's always people around you. the love from your partner might only be a short period of time BUT I CAN GUARANTEE the love from our parents is more than anything. AND MOST IMPORTANT IS FOREVER LOVE. i believe that parents have their reasons for doing something.

many might think age difference is not a problem for couples. liking a person that is 10,20 , or 30 years older than you? or younger than you? but have you ever think, can you adapt to each other's lifestyle and love each other's negative attributes? or adapting each other's lifestyle 30 years down the road? many things might change by then. right? is quite hard to imagine.

after saying so much, i think things should be change. think about it. as a guy for you, if you really love her, you should really go find a job and work harder. at least give her the financial and emotional security because love isn't just about sacrificing alone, but its about both parties sacrificing for each other for the benefit of your future.

well, some might not be agreeing with what i say, but as a friend i really hope you will think about it AGAIN.

P/S omg i had been spending hours posting this super long post. and i really hope it make a difference in your life. <3

this week volleyball is really ___! $%^&*&^@!!! intensive PT training. yea i mean not that intensive, but just that I haven't been doing PT for like more than 6 months and I'm getting lazier and aching starts to come. i cant run. so to me, 5 sets of jumping jacks. 2 sets of superman. 5 sets of push up. 2 rounds of the stadium. dunno how many sets of leg raise + sit up. and endless random things we did. lost count! yea so to me, PT sucks and its BORING! THANKS TO THE WEATHER :D 

this few training, we learnt how to spike. HAHA. spiking is real cool. helps relieving stress and if someone's bothering you and you not shuang right, just pretend the ball to be the person's head and smack it! HAHA. yea just SMACK IT.

drained out by PT and seriously, dont have the mood to play anymore. i had been so moody these few training. and i alway miss the ball when it comes to me. haha. but THANKS to cheryl, carrisa, joyce for the concern. <3

9:16 AM ·

8:37 AM ·