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Saturday, July 19, 2008

MUST READ SESSION!!!!! although is long

(dedicated to someone)

the test of friendship doesn't come when we're together, it comes when we're apart, and we will realize that despite the distance, the friendship is still there :)

there it goes!! same it applies for relationship. doesn't mean that couples have to spend every single minute, hour, day and time together. missing each other would definitely be a YES! but not to the extend of meeting each other every single day.

trust and faith is the thing that keep couples together. as what yuping told to me " i rather, spend less time, but love her even more because of the lack of time. rather than spent more time and take her for granted. i mean if you scared your other partner will date with others, then you shouldn't even commit yourself into a relationship" TOTALLY AGREE WITH THIS. yea? AGAIN IT'S THE TRUST.

suddenly something just came across my mind. and seriously i really have to voice this out.

Loving somebody may be a good thing, but falling in love deeply with someone may not be a good thing anymore. especially falling for someone which you not suppose to fall in love with.

Loving someone or getting into a relationship, is not just you and your partner's life merge together. it also affect people around you. your family and your friends. Have you ever ask yourself, wouldn't be silly if you quarrel with your parents over a guy? Wouldn't be silly if you quarrel with your friends over a guy? Wouldn't be silly if you neglect your studies over a guy? At the end of the day, all of them leave you, what did u get? well you might think, you still have your guy. BUT WHAT IF your guy break up you, what did u get? NOTHING IN FACT!!

If you feels that what you're doing is correct, then you must be very selfish. i mean you dont live or own the world alone, there's always people around you. the love from your partner might only be a short period of time BUT I CAN GUARANTEE the love from our parents is more than anything. AND MOST IMPORTANT IS FOREVER LOVE. i believe that parents have their reasons for doing something.

many might think age difference is not a problem for couples. liking a person that is 10,20 , or 30 years older than you? or younger than you? but have you ever think, can you adapt to each other's lifestyle and love each other's negative attributes? or adapting each other's lifestyle 30 years down the road? many things might change by then. right? is quite hard to imagine.

after saying so much, i think things should be change. think about it. as a guy for you, if you really love her, you should really go find a job and work harder. at least give her the financial and emotional security because love isn't just about sacrificing alone, but its about both parties sacrificing for each other for the benefit of your future.

爱一个人，不是占有，而是要让对方有喘息的空间。。。如果，一段感情，让一方感到疲惫。为何不放手，把爱情留在最美的时刻？这样一来，不是比分手后，想为何自己以前那么的傻来的好吗？一段感情，是让你感到开心和快乐。。如果你的开心和难过带来身边的人不开心。。值得吗？- Pei lin

well, some might not be agreeing with what i say, but as a friend i really hope you will think about it AGAIN.

P/S omg i had been spending hours posting this super long post. and i really hope it make a difference in your life. <3


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